I came across this piece of article's headline and I knew I had to write about it. Hint hint, the title is coincidentally the title for this blog post as well.
So anyway, the editor for this online journal's good friend, a woman, met this guy at a bar. I quote, 6'2”, blue eyes, dark hair, funny, and in her own words, “HOT.” They made plans to meet the next day. Normal.
On their first date, he was the perfect gentleman. (Duh, Expected). He came to pick her up at her house, opened the car door, and bought her friends a round of drinks when they met up with them later. They hung out again the next night to watch the Knicks game, and two more times after that.
With all that effort, the friend was impressed with how much that guy was into her.
***
He would text her in the morning to wish her a good day, and would call her after work because he couldn’t wait to see her. He seemed genuinely interested when she talked about her job, he introduced her to his friends, and would also talk about things in the future tense, like “When you meet my dog…”
***
Any girl would have thought that bloke was seriously interested in her.
Then,
They had sex.
Three days later, all she heard from him was silence. Typical classic guy that hits it off and leave. but in the most sleazy, evil and conniving way.
Honestly, I am not pissed off or whatsoever because I have generally classified guys, almost 99% of em' are only interested in one thing. SEX. and right now, they have brought it up a level to the a more propelling twisted mind thrilling chase in this game of Tom Jerry love game.
For instance, guys now are more willing to devote their precious hours in their lifetime to butter and suck up to the females into thinking that they are up for a serious long-time relationship and eventually the ladies falling hard for em' douches when their ONE only goal, is sex.
This is what the editor thinks,
"The only possible explanation I have for why the most pathetic type of man still exists is that he finds some twisted joy in the challenge of bedding a girl who isn’t down for a one-night stand. “How many dates do I have to take her on to get her to do this?” he probably thinks. And in the time it would take him to sleep with four different girls who were just looking for a good time, he focuses all of his efforts on taking down one".
Me? I simply agree and second that. In addition to that, men has come to a point in realizing that women now knows how to Fuck and get over with it. They are into the sleeping-withcha-and-goodbye game, just like the guys.
The males prolly got insecure with that thought of girls bidding them goodbye after a night of sex, and hence, all these troubles into mind-tricking the girls into a realm of serious relationship and long term.
So take attention ladies, watch out for men out there. You never know when they'l come hunting you down like a raw piece of meat. If they are really truly sincerely interested in ya, they'll go through torns to prove it to you. And I'm not saying within a couple of weeks or even a month or so. Think wisely.
Rooting for all the girls out there!
xx
So anyway, the editor for this online journal's good friend, a woman, met this guy at a bar. I quote, 6'2”, blue eyes, dark hair, funny, and in her own words, “HOT.” They made plans to meet the next day. Normal.
On their first date, he was the perfect gentleman. (Duh, Expected). He came to pick her up at her house, opened the car door, and bought her friends a round of drinks when they met up with them later. They hung out again the next night to watch the Knicks game, and two more times after that.
With all that effort, the friend was impressed with how much that guy was into her.
***
He would text her in the morning to wish her a good day, and would call her after work because he couldn’t wait to see her. He seemed genuinely interested when she talked about her job, he introduced her to his friends, and would also talk about things in the future tense, like “When you meet my dog…”
***
Any girl would have thought that bloke was seriously interested in her.
Then,
They had sex.
Three days later, all she heard from him was silence. Typical classic guy that hits it off and leave. but in the most sleazy, evil and conniving way.
Honestly, I am not pissed off or whatsoever because I have generally classified guys, almost 99% of em' are only interested in one thing. SEX. and right now, they have brought it up a level to the a more propelling twisted mind thrilling chase in this game of Tom Jerry love game.
For instance, guys now are more willing to devote their precious hours in their lifetime to butter and suck up to the females into thinking that they are up for a serious long-time relationship and eventually the ladies falling hard for em' douches when their ONE only goal, is sex.
This is what the editor thinks,
"The only possible explanation I have for why the most pathetic type of man still exists is that he finds some twisted joy in the challenge of bedding a girl who isn’t down for a one-night stand. “How many dates do I have to take her on to get her to do this?” he probably thinks. And in the time it would take him to sleep with four different girls who were just looking for a good time, he focuses all of his efforts on taking down one".
Me? I simply agree and second that. In addition to that, men has come to a point in realizing that women now knows how to Fuck and get over with it. They are into the sleeping-withcha-and-goodbye game, just like the guys.
The males prolly got insecure with that thought of girls bidding them goodbye after a night of sex, and hence, all these troubles into mind-tricking the girls into a realm of serious relationship and long term.
So take attention ladies, watch out for men out there. You never know when they'l come hunting you down like a raw piece of meat. If they are really truly sincerely interested in ya, they'll go through torns to prove it to you. And I'm not saying within a couple of weeks or even a month or so. Think wisely.
Rooting for all the girls out there!
xx
I LOVE this post!! You are sooo RIGHT-ON!!!To all of the Good-Girls out there, you need to develop your self-esteem and your instincts ...When I fall in love I am very open and honest about my feelings ...I don't fall quickly, however; I do fall from time to time. But must guys will try and I repeat TRY, to take advantage of me thinking I am vacuous for being so transparent...I'm a Scorpio ...little do they know that I am like a Ghost when it comes to men...you treat me badly and it will be as though I never existed in your life yet I will haunt you in your dreams ...some men do not deserve the time of day ...good-girls need to develop an edge and kick those evil guys to the curb!!! Girl Power!!! ~ vaquous2011
ReplyDeleteawww! hello darling! thank you! Like really all these guys need to get a frigging life of their own.
ReplyDeleteMe too! we be so honest bout our feelings and they take advantage of em'. exactly!
You rock on girl! <3 Do not let guys play you out hun! We have to protect ourselves and love ourselves! Do not believe in the fact that we NEED guys to love us.
Girl Power! <3<3