Dodgy title eh?! Ironic, but in spite of how some other people long for affection from the opposite sex but there are times when the wrong one comes and you just absolutely DO NOT feel the sparks between you both! And especially if that particular someone keeps coming onto you, and things start becoming really damn awkward. *wham* that's just messed up!
So really, what do you do to avoid the unpleasant feeling?
Do you confront him/her and just go point blank? or do you pretend as if you are not aware of the electricity being emitted by him/her? or would you actually avoid them?
Basically, right until now, its so darn difficult because usually the ones that confronted me are usually my friends and thats just AWKWARD!
So, I can't exactly be point blank because I really really do not want to lose their friendships. and I must admit they are really awesome friends just without the deep feelings.
What I usually do is I act indifferent and play dumb until he admits to me. Then, I would have no choice but to tell him, with the uh's and ah's filling up the sentence like minnow swimming around the lake and usually ends up sounding like this; Geez, I don't want to ruin the friendship. It usually ends up in that party getting so mad at me. Honestly, GOD knows why, but I was just being honest about my feelings. I most definitely do not want to give you false hope and push you off the cliff just like that without any warnings!
And really, I am sorry I just don't have feelings. You can't help it, can you? I don't know about you guys but its a bloody tough shit going if you are trying to force your feelings to grow.
=s
That's it. Tell me what you'd actually do if you were to face that kinda situation because really, goddamn, this is a painful experience not for one, but both parties.
gonna stop here. goodbye lovers.
xoxo
So really, what do you do to avoid the unpleasant feeling?
Do you confront him/her and just go point blank? or do you pretend as if you are not aware of the electricity being emitted by him/her? or would you actually avoid them?
Basically, right until now, its so darn difficult because usually the ones that confronted me are usually my friends and thats just AWKWARD!
So, I can't exactly be point blank because I really really do not want to lose their friendships. and I must admit they are really awesome friends just without the deep feelings.
What I usually do is I act indifferent and play dumb until he admits to me. Then, I would have no choice but to tell him, with the uh's and ah's filling up the sentence like minnow swimming around the lake and usually ends up sounding like this; Geez, I don't want to ruin the friendship. It usually ends up in that party getting so mad at me. Honestly, GOD knows why, but I was just being honest about my feelings. I most definitely do not want to give you false hope and push you off the cliff just like that without any warnings!
And really, I am sorry I just don't have feelings. You can't help it, can you? I don't know about you guys but its a bloody tough shit going if you are trying to force your feelings to grow.
=s
That's it. Tell me what you'd actually do if you were to face that kinda situation because really, goddamn, this is a painful experience not for one, but both parties.
gonna stop here. goodbye lovers.
xoxo
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