After a load of crap that's been happening, okay, I am not complaining, lol, just explaining my situation because I am darn sure there are others out there facing worse situations compared to me. So, honestly, I should shut up about complaining on petite things.
So anyway, relationship has been jeopardized. Amazing. Just waiting for the right time till that happens. Then I checked my email, and found this female's website "Betty Confidential" writing an article on How to make your breakup a breakthrough.
Not a coincidence is it?
So anyway, I immediately clicked on it to read it. It was good and functions as an eye opener. The writer's been in a relationship for 15 effing years and broke off just about 2 hours before their engagement party! *bloody wham in the head*
Now, what am I to compare to that?
Taking a paragraph from that article, I quote Christine Arylo
The people I’ve seen—including myself—who have transformed themselves into a person who is even more true to who they are because of a breakup, have created more love not less.
These people took these seven daring acts of self-love -- I invite you to do the same:
1. Turn your focus and energy from the other person to yourself. Stop reaching out to him or her for love, and instead reach inside you for love.
2. Remember that yes, while there are no longer two people in this relationship, there is still one, and you are not going anywhere.
3. Realize that this breakup, while a loss of connection, is not a loss of love.
4. Know that there is an abundance of love in the world for you. Surround yourself with healthy love—a lot of it!
5. Remember you are never alone. In the moments when you feel lonely, remember you have you.
6. Remember that you are going forward, you are not being left behind. Something in you is pulling you forward into something new. Keep an eye on what that something is, and move toward it.
7. Be completely honest with yourself, no matter what. No story telling and no illusions. It is a deep act of self-love to have unwavering honesty with yourself.
Most of all, remember that loss of any kind is hard, so be gentle and compassionate with yourself. Love yourself extra. Reach out and ask for love—in a healthy way—often. Get hugged. And be with your feelings. It is possible to feel both loss and happiness at the same time. Your loss does not define you. Love defines you.
But if you want to read the entire article, here you go
http://www.bettyconfidential.com/ar/ld/a/how-to-make-your-breakup-a-breakthrough.html
Hope it helps love.
x
So anyway, relationship has been jeopardized. Amazing. Just waiting for the right time till that happens. Then I checked my email, and found this female's website "Betty Confidential" writing an article on How to make your breakup a breakthrough.
Not a coincidence is it?
So anyway, I immediately clicked on it to read it. It was good and functions as an eye opener. The writer's been in a relationship for 15 effing years and broke off just about 2 hours before their engagement party! *bloody wham in the head*
Now, what am I to compare to that?
Taking a paragraph from that article, I quote Christine Arylo
The people I’ve seen—including myself—who have transformed themselves into a person who is even more true to who they are because of a breakup, have created more love not less.
These people took these seven daring acts of self-love -- I invite you to do the same:
1. Turn your focus and energy from the other person to yourself. Stop reaching out to him or her for love, and instead reach inside you for love.
2. Remember that yes, while there are no longer two people in this relationship, there is still one, and you are not going anywhere.
3. Realize that this breakup, while a loss of connection, is not a loss of love.
4. Know that there is an abundance of love in the world for you. Surround yourself with healthy love—a lot of it!
5. Remember you are never alone. In the moments when you feel lonely, remember you have you.
6. Remember that you are going forward, you are not being left behind. Something in you is pulling you forward into something new. Keep an eye on what that something is, and move toward it.
7. Be completely honest with yourself, no matter what. No story telling and no illusions. It is a deep act of self-love to have unwavering honesty with yourself.
Most of all, remember that loss of any kind is hard, so be gentle and compassionate with yourself. Love yourself extra. Reach out and ask for love—in a healthy way—often. Get hugged. And be with your feelings. It is possible to feel both loss and happiness at the same time. Your loss does not define you. Love defines you.
But if you want to read the entire article, here you go
http://www.bettyconfidential.com/ar/ld/a/how-to-make-your-breakup-a-breakthrough.html
Hope it helps love.
x
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